These women on reddit posted stories about times men behaved super creepy towards them. These stories range from downright harassment, to taking things too far, to being creepily annoying. But they are all completely uncalled for and men need to stop doing stuff like this. It’s not cool at all. Don’t be like these guys:
Source: Ranker
Thank you ladies for these comments. We guys really can be creepy but the sad thing is many times we don’t even know it. Only now do I get it. You would rather be left alone than get hit on 4-5 times a day. Please forgive us…we are rather clumsy and lacking in manners.
One time I was out with friends and these guys asked if they could buy us drinks. My friends and I were drinking green tea shots, so we tried to order a round of that – I say “tried to” because as soon as we told them that was what we were drinking, one of the guys (the one paying for our round) immediately told us to order a “real drink”. So I tried to order a round of scotch, only for him to say (again) that it wasn’t a “real drink” (none of the girls drank scotch; I was just annoyed enough to break his bank). So we told him to just pick the drink he wants us to order, and he picked a low-grade whiskey. Both the scotch and the green tea shots had a higher alcohol content than this stuff, so to this day we laugh about his definition of a “real drink” – particularly since the scotch made it obvious that he didn’t have a lot of money despite trying to appear that way.
If you want to buy us drinks, let us pick what we get. Pulling something like this just makes you the butt of our jokes when we’re sober, and pisses us off and/or creeps us out when we’re not.
I stopped letting men younger than 70 open doors for me if I don’t know them when I was 16. By that point I had had sex different grown men open the door just to smack my @$$ when I walked through. Normally when I’d turn around and go “I’m in Highschool, you creep!” They’d back off and usually (not always) apologize. Not for sexually harass but because I was a minor. But the last guy just looked me up and down and said “I’d risk it”. Thankfully another grown man had observed interaction and came running at that statement and beat the guys @$$ while screaming for his friends to call the police. The creep left in an ambulance And handcuffs, after I gave a statement to the cops the second man and his friends escorted me inside to my friends and told me to find them at the food court if anything else happened.
I still hope him and his friends are having good lives, they were heros that day.