Mrs. Gendered illustrated this cute guide to some of the definitions of different sexual orientations and gender identities. This is in alphabetical order so you can easily refer to it if you are confused about anything. She drew one for each day of Pride Month. The artist did note that not every identity can be included in every post. If you aren’t represented, please don’t feel left out, we support every identity here. ❤️🏳️🌈
Artist: Mrs. Gendered
(via: Trans Army)
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Please note the creator is a GUY, they are trans-masc, the username Mrs. Gendered is a pun off of being misgendered
I’m still confused on the difference between bisexual and pansexual, this describes them as the same with a little different wording. I was once told that pansexual is that you’re rarely attracted to more than one gender, but can become attracted to another gender. Whereas bisexual is a constant attraction to more the one gender. This says bisexual is attracted to more than 1 gender, and pansexual as attracted to any gender, “more than 1” can equal any and all, so I’m lost.
One thing that usually doesn’t get brought up in very quick definitions of the terms is that bi and omni people can have different standards based on gender. For example, let’s say that someone who likes all genders is attracted to muscular women, but not muscular men – they prefer men to be more slim and androgynous. This person would be bi and omni, but not pan. Sometimes, attraction also feels different depending on which gender the person is, like it’s multiple attractions to others that apply to different genders.
Pan people, on the other hand, experience attraction regardless of gender. So while bi and omni people can have different standards based on gender, pan people don’t. If they like muscles, they will like people who are muscular regardless of gender. It’s a single attraction to others, which feels the same and applies the same to everyone.
And for completion’s sake, the difference between bi and omni people is that bi people are attracted to more than one gender (but not necessarily all) while omni people are attracted to all genders. For example, a bi person could be attracted to men and non-masculine enbies, but not women. Or attracted to men and women, but not non-masculine and non-feminine enbies. That being said, bi is an umbrella term, so someone can describe themselves as both bi and omni or bi and pan.
As for being attracted to more than one gender, but rarely, the usual term used is heteroflexible or homoflexible, depending on what their primary attraction is. A man who is usually attracted to women but sometimes, rarely, to men would be heteroflexible; a man who’s usually attracted to men but sometimes, rarely, to women would be homoflexible.