This is an interesting post about how experiencing life as an aromantic can be very alienating. This is probably very relatable for anyone who identifies the same way. If you didn’t know, aromanticism refers to a romantic orientation characterized by a lack of romantic attraction or interest in romantic relationships. Individuals who identify as aromantic may still experience other forms of attraction, such as platonic or aesthetic attraction, but they do not feel the desire or need for romantic partnerships. Aromanticism is a spectrum, and individuals who identify as aromantic may have varying experiences and feelings about relationships.

Somebody asks you why you don’t have a partner.

“I don’t feel that way about anyone” is met with “Oh, you just haven’t found the right person!”

“I don’t want to find ‘the right person’!” is straight up ignored. Of course you do. Everybody does. You must be mistaken.

You just don’t know what you really want. Aren’t you lucky to have people in your life who do?

“I’m focussing on my education,” you finally say. This is acceptable. This carries the implication that once you’ve graduated, you will start looking for someone.

If the words ring hollow to you, well, nobody else seems to hear it.

Source: chaotic-carnifex