Lily Evans (NSFW) tweeted this story to help explain why some women are perceived as “rude”, “cold”, or “standoffish” to random men who approach them in public:
Source: Lily Evans (NSFW)
Why Some Women Are “Rude” To Men In Public
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this also works for the benefit of the men; if a girl rudely brushes you off like that, its a huge red flag. There is absolutely no point in pursuing her any further, even if somehow she changes her mind about you, there is no scenario where this turns into a positive relationship or friendship for you. If she is rude like that in a moment of social awkwardness, stranger fear or anxiety, she is going to be at least just as rude when there are any problems in the relationship.
Believe women when they send you clear signals. Rudeness is like a rattlesnake’s rattling buzz, and rattlesnakes are not our friends.
How did you read this and miss the entire point that it is NOT about you. It’s about every woman feeling like they’re playing Russian Roulette whenever a strange man is in our space.
The OP wasn’t rude at all (thanks to women generally being socialized to/learning that it’s safer to play nice), and you cannot tell me that this guy’s behaviour was acceptable.
If a woman is rude to you when you instigate an interaction, it might have nothing to do with you as an individual, and everything to do with the fact that she’s already had enough with being harassed in general.
that does not make any practical difference? If you feel someone is rude towards you, especially in the initial interaction, there is no reason to pursue them further, and trying to will overwhelmingly likely end bad for both parties involved, regardless of their sex/gender.
Whether its a woman approaching a man, woman approaching a woman, man approaching a man, or man approaching a woman, whether they are cis or trans, straight or queer it makes no difference.
If someone is rude to you for a good reason, you should GTFO and leave them alone.
If someone is rude to you for no good reason, you should GTFO and leave them alone.
Maybe they are rude because you acted like an ass. Maybe they are rude because they are an ass. Maybe you are both asses. Or maybe none of you are asses, and the rudeness comes from trauma and compounded bad emotions. In each case, leave them alone, its a “rattlesnake” situation.
A simple breakdown for men why they should GTFO in such a situation:
– if she was “rude” to you because of your own ass-like behavior, you will not win her over with persistence, just make things worse. Leave her be.
– if she is rude due to her own ass-like personality, and you are innocent, why dig yourself deeper in trouble? You can’t un-ass someone who is an ass.
– if she is a decent person yet “rude” because she is already traumatized by men harassing her and lashes out, what is your plan, my guy? Are you a professional therapist with lots of free time? Are you capable of guiding her out of the compounded trauma of bad experiences? (No, you are not, just GTFO)
And all of the above assumes that the guy is just an ass, not actual near-criminal creep. If the guy is a criminal creep (like the guy in the original story) there is NO conceivable scenario where that thing goes well for him.
Your head is really deep into your ass. You telling women who fear about being groped, raped and killed that their fears is equivalent to your fear of rejection. Grow up
And how pray tell is a man to know that? Explain.
You are a retard lmao
You really need to stop talking to yourself.