LOL! This is a great rebuttal to all the men complaining about being put in the “friendzone” by women. If you can’t tell this is a quite sarcastic parody of the way dudes complain women wanting to be friends, this flips the stereotype on it’s head in the girlfriend-zone:
Source: literaryreference
(via: Cheezburger)
that was the stupidest thing i’ve read today. the Highlighted part that was supposed to be the satire against men in the “Friend-Zone”‘s comments was actually true. Men are wired to be friends with other men and work together to accomplish missions. thery are also wired to find a mate within the women crowd. if you guys have that much in common, maybe try a relationship. if it doesn’t work out, break up but remain friends. boom, solved.
You realize that most of the time being friends with guys you’ve had a relationship never works out, right? Especially when you get a new partner who is like “you slept with them? they’ve seen you naked?”
If you say so… My girlfriend used to be (well, still is) one of my best friend for around 6 years before we started dating. My best buddy dated another one of my best friends and didn’t work, but they are still super best friends. Idk, this girl maybe need to understand that is uncomfortable for some people to keep a friendship with someone you want lo love as a partner. Trying to force them to stay throug shame is ridiculous. The wound may never heal. Sorry, if is sad and you had to go alone to Hunger Games, but the world does not revolve around you.
You’ve missed the entire point. She doesn’t want to date them. She doesn’t want to be viewed as a potential sex partner. She wants to be viewed as a human and valued for herself, not the organ between her legs.
I don’t know if you were answering me, but anyway: People don’t live in your head. It does not matter if you want just friendship, the only way of finding out for the rest of the world is asking. If they ask you and you say you only want friendship, is the right of the other person to decide if they are ok with that, as it was your right to decide not having a relationship with them. And that’s it. You are not entitled to nobody’s friendship. As they are not entitled to your love. End.
Men are ‘wired to be friends with other men’ because that’s the cultural influence they’ve had for ages. They’re taught, and they LEARN that. And even then, they’re also taught and learn to compete against other men and to mock and ridicule those who do not behave like them, who are different. Upbringing, societal, cultural and peer pressure, not biological, dude.
There is literally nothing in your biology to stop you from being a friend to a woman, or seeing a woman as a fellow human being, except what you’ve absorbed into your psyche growing up. So the satire really, really works, especially with the growth of incels and incel subculture and the general sense of entitlement that many men seem to suck up like sponges: Women owe us sex if we’re nice to them, I mean, what the…? No. We. Don’t. We don’t owe you anything.
The corollary to you not owing us anything is we don’t owe you anything either. Including another second of our time if we don’t get what we want. Therefore go your way, and I will go mine, and they will not cross paths again.
If you want to be friends with a guy, approach them like a guy. I’ve known my best male friend since 2006. What’s his favorite color? No idea. Does he read? Probably. When guys hang they don’t want to play “get to know you” games or 20-questions. Guy friends bond by sharing interests and activities. Only the very best guy friends provide emotional support (this part is a bit sad, but true).